Comments on Welcome to the Jungle: Maybe He's Just Not That Into Me

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2009-12-22T21:21:42.999-05:00

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it gets worse when u start to expect from people.

2009-10-23T08:21:31.373-04:00

it gets worse when u start to expect from people.

Aw, thanks Ambar! I'll check it out

2009-10-20T15:33:21.684-04:00

Aw, thanks Ambar! I'll check it out

Just gave you an award girly http://bit.ly/2SecWM

2009-10-19T15:11:06.534-04:00

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Hi! I'm visiting over from Date Girl's blo...

2009-10-16T20:43:32.128-04:00

Hi! I'm visiting over from Date Girl's blog. I get what you mean about the jaded New Yorker complex where you've got your guard up the whole time because you don't know what weirdo is making googly eyes at you from across the bar.

Kudos to you for getting out there (and going all the way to LA!!) and just giving it a shot. If he's not that into you, oh well. Take it for what it is and keep your eyes peeled for the guy who'll want to know all about you.

It sounds like neither one of you is very into the...

2009-10-16T13:42:41.579-04:00

It sounds like neither one of you is very into the other. You admitted that you don't know anything about him, so either he's only skin deep and there's not much to him, or you haven't found out more about him because you just don't care about knowing more about him.

Oh well, there are plenty of more interesting guys in LA.

Aw, thanks lady. I'll have to go check it out ...

2009-10-16T03:13:23.687-04:00

Aw, thanks lady. I'll have to go check it out :)

It doesn't sound like he's all that into y...

2009-10-16T00:41:40.582-04:00

It doesn't sound like he's all that into you. A long time ago I dated a guy like that, Potential Guy. We had some great dates, we spent a lot of time together. We even did the dirty deed. But he'd go a week without calling or texting. When we hung out it was light hearted, but no real deep questions about me or what makes me tick. I would ask him, he'd answer, but that'd be that. I finally got fed up and gave him the boot.

Btw, I gave you an award on my blog!

This guy sounds like a real winner guys like that ...

2009-10-13T19:51:29.491-04:00

This guy sounds like a real winner
guys like that for me i stay far away from ...... PS i am sure your one great New York City girl..

GOOD LUCK

I think it's because you were new to town and ...

2009-10-13T16:25:37.089-04:00

I think it's because you were new to town and just needed someone to kind of be a wing person. Doing anything ALONE can be torture sometimes. Another body - just helps. Good thing you noticed now, cause maybe he's not the one.

Though.... asking TOO many questions in the beginning can actually spoil the fun of meeting new people????!!! maybe that's it??

nope..... that's not it. Find someone who wants to know EVERYTHING about YOU!

Mmm, that's a toughie... god, relationships ar...

2009-10-12T00:18:07.406-04:00

Mmm, that's a toughie... god, relationships are in general... but we all still dive in! Wow, I sound cynical... which if hilarious because I'm giddily in a new relationship, lol!! I wish I had some golden nugget of wisdom for you... other than don't lose the smart, funny, spunky New Yorker!! I love me some New Yorker sass!! :) And maybe L.A. needs a big dose of NYC, baby...

xoxo J

I guess, Jen..., but maybe you're not that int...

2009-10-11T14:20:05.776-04:00

I guess, Jen..., but maybe you're not that into him, either, and he's reading it, possibly. Could be LA-style, too, where stuff is only skin deep unless there's a problem. Real is not accepted well by most, but it's a huge city and the probability of finding someone more interesting (-ed) has to be good.